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Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Heartbroken Poem To Help You Heal
Heartbroken Poem To Help You Heal
If you’ve ever been through a sad break-up with someone you’ve love, you may have written a heartbroken poem. You may have even written such a poem for things like the loss of a pet or a family member, sadness at moving away from your friends, or any number of sad life events. But it seems nothing inspires such sad poetry as a break-up or divorce. Just as few things inspire love poetry quite like being in a happy, loving relationship.
Poetry is an excellent medium for self-expression. Unless you’re writing poetry with the hope of having it published one day, you can write poetry however you like. It doesn’t have to be good poetry. You don’t have to understand any of the poetic terms or conventions like rhyme, meter or free verse. You don’t even have to have ever read a really good poem in your life to write a heartbroken poem that can help you feel better and maybe help you heal from the pain of a break-up.
An important early step in getting over a break-up or any sad situation is simply facing the pain. While it might feel better to avoid dealing with the reality of the situation, you can’t really move past it without facing it and feeling the pain, at least for a while. So facing up to whatever painful situation is happening is necessary. A heartbroken poem can help you deal with those painful feelings when you’ve split with someone you love.
Don’t worry about whether it’s good or not. No one else ever has to read your heartbroken poem. It’s for you and you alone. Just write down your feelings, as hard as that may be. You can write in plain language. Don’t try to imitate the poets of the 17th and 18th century. Write like you talk, and break the lines where it feels natural to you. In fact, you can start by writing one huge paragraph filled with all your feelings and everything you want to express, just to get it out. Then you can go back and arrange your thoughts and feelings into a poem.
Once you’ve written a heartbroken poem, you might want to write more about different parts of the pain. That’s good. Get down everything you can, and that will help you to face the pain. Writing the poetry will probably be a very emotional time for you. Don’t try to stop it. Just let the pain out and you’ll be better able to move on.
If you decide you want to share your heartbroken poem, you can show family or friends. Or if you want to share it but not with anyone you know, you can put it online. There are websites designed just for such things. You can upload your poetry for free and let other people know if you want to receive criticism or not. You might opt to not receive comments on your heartbroken poem and just enjoy the fact that you’ve shared your experience.
If you’ve ever been through a sad break-up with someone you’ve love, you may have written a heartbroken poem. You may have even written such a poem for things like the loss of a pet or a family member, sadness at moving away from your friends, or any number of sad life events. But it seems nothing inspires such sad poetry as a break-up or divorce. Just as few things inspire love poetry quite like being in a happy, loving relationship.
Poetry is an excellent medium for self-expression. Unless you’re writing poetry with the hope of having it published one day, you can write poetry however you like. It doesn’t have to be good poetry. You don’t have to understand any of the poetic terms or conventions like rhyme, meter or free verse. You don’t even have to have ever read a really good poem in your life to write a heartbroken poem that can help you feel better and maybe help you heal from the pain of a break-up.
An important early step in getting over a break-up or any sad situation is simply facing the pain. While it might feel better to avoid dealing with the reality of the situation, you can’t really move past it without facing it and feeling the pain, at least for a while. So facing up to whatever painful situation is happening is necessary. A heartbroken poem can help you deal with those painful feelings when you’ve split with someone you love.
Don’t worry about whether it’s good or not. No one else ever has to read your heartbroken poem. It’s for you and you alone. Just write down your feelings, as hard as that may be. You can write in plain language. Don’t try to imitate the poets of the 17th and 18th century. Write like you talk, and break the lines where it feels natural to you. In fact, you can start by writing one huge paragraph filled with all your feelings and everything you want to express, just to get it out. Then you can go back and arrange your thoughts and feelings into a poem.
Once you’ve written a heartbroken poem, you might want to write more about different parts of the pain. That’s good. Get down everything you can, and that will help you to face the pain. Writing the poetry will probably be a very emotional time for you. Don’t try to stop it. Just let the pain out and you’ll be better able to move on.
If you decide you want to share your heartbroken poem, you can show family or friends. Or if you want to share it but not with anyone you know, you can put it online. There are websites designed just for such things. You can upload your poetry for free and let other people know if you want to receive criticism or not. You might opt to not receive comments on your heartbroken poem and just enjoy the fact that you’ve shared your experience.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Relationship Quotes
Sometimes the best way to say something is the way someone more literary than you has said it. In that vein, here are some relationship quotes of note:
"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down."
-Oprah Winfrey
"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take." -Anthony Robbins
"Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same." -Flavia Weedn
"The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that's why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they've really done is they've shifted their relationship with time." – Caroline Myss
"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." – Mark Twain
"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with" ~ Gillian Anderson
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." – Aristotle
"The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart." – Helen Keller
"Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl - no superior alternative has yet been found." – Winston Churchill
"It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations." – Kahlin Gibran
"To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person." – Eric Fromm
"Man is a knot into which relationships are tied." ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." ~ Keith Sweat
"Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with others." ~ Stephen R. Covey
"Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made - like bread, remade all the time, made new." – Ursula LeGuin
"Once the trust goes out of a relationship, it's really no fun lying to 'em anymore." -Norm from Cheers
There’s a broad collection of relationship quotes for you.
"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down."
-Oprah Winfrey
"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take." -Anthony Robbins
"Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same." -Flavia Weedn
"The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that's why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they've really done is they've shifted their relationship with time." – Caroline Myss
"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." – Mark Twain
"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with" ~ Gillian Anderson
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." – Aristotle
"The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart." – Helen Keller
"Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl - no superior alternative has yet been found." – Winston Churchill
"It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations." – Kahlin Gibran
"To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person." – Eric Fromm
"Man is a knot into which relationships are tied." ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." ~ Keith Sweat
"Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with others." ~ Stephen R. Covey
"Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made - like bread, remade all the time, made new." – Ursula LeGuin
"Once the trust goes out of a relationship, it's really no fun lying to 'em anymore." -Norm from Cheers
There’s a broad collection of relationship quotes for you.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
How Do I Get Her Back?
Guys find themselves thinking "What can I do to get her back" after a breakup. Then they begin philosophizing about things that should have been done different, even making plans to write apology letters, anything to help them score the relationship back in-tact.
This is a dead end for one reason above all: You can never tell what the real issues were behind a breakup. Women much of the time become emotional and often do not even know what led up to the break up and they may not realize what is causing them to feel the way they are. It is harmful in many situations to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.
The primary strategy to answering the question of "what can I do to get back my ex girlfriend" is to let things cool off for a while, do some other things. Go out, meet people, make friends, have fun, forget about women for a while. Set some realistic goals to expand your repertoire when it comes to relating to women.
Take a couple months, make some changes in your life, spend time away from the ex and it will work wonders. However much time you need in order to get your emotions and your head clear.
Once you have your head on straight its time to strategically work on getting your ex-girlfriend back. You don't want to be wussy and beg though. Women don't respect that.
Play it cool. If you have given everything enough time, she is probably missing you as much as you miss her. Let her know you are doing well (playing hard to get), but don't over do it. This will get her really re-thinking things.
If getting back with your ex is meant to be, this is when it will be apparent. Remember to analyze is to paralyze, over analyzing could prevent you from acting correctly when trying to figure out what to do to get your ex girlfriend back.
Trying to get back at her or trying to make her feel jealous is not a good way to do things. This in fact can be some of the worst things you can possibly do, since it will show your ex that she should simply move on because you already have. You want her to see that you are doing OK, but you don't want to inspire her to move on if you ideally want to get back together. Let her see how strong and confident your are, and she will want to get back with you.
This is a dead end for one reason above all: You can never tell what the real issues were behind a breakup. Women much of the time become emotional and often do not even know what led up to the break up and they may not realize what is causing them to feel the way they are. It is harmful in many situations to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.
The primary strategy to answering the question of "what can I do to get back my ex girlfriend" is to let things cool off for a while, do some other things. Go out, meet people, make friends, have fun, forget about women for a while. Set some realistic goals to expand your repertoire when it comes to relating to women.
Take a couple months, make some changes in your life, spend time away from the ex and it will work wonders. However much time you need in order to get your emotions and your head clear.
Once you have your head on straight its time to strategically work on getting your ex-girlfriend back. You don't want to be wussy and beg though. Women don't respect that.
Play it cool. If you have given everything enough time, she is probably missing you as much as you miss her. Let her know you are doing well (playing hard to get), but don't over do it. This will get her really re-thinking things.
If getting back with your ex is meant to be, this is when it will be apparent. Remember to analyze is to paralyze, over analyzing could prevent you from acting correctly when trying to figure out what to do to get your ex girlfriend back.
Trying to get back at her or trying to make her feel jealous is not a good way to do things. This in fact can be some of the worst things you can possibly do, since it will show your ex that she should simply move on because you already have. You want her to see that you are doing OK, but you don't want to inspire her to move on if you ideally want to get back together. Let her see how strong and confident your are, and she will want to get back with you.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex?
Relationships are fragile strands that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and flourishing. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are painful, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that ends, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really for the best? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting situation, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also excellent ways for getting your ex back as well.
1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop your wussy begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and continuing with life. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.
2 - Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counter intuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable you are.
3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer, don't burn bridges. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.
4 - Get out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and go out. Develop a social life and enjoy some entertainment . This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.
5 - Be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop your wussy begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and continuing with life. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.
2 - Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counter intuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable you are.
3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer, don't burn bridges. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.
4 - Get out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and go out. Develop a social life and enjoy some entertainment . This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.
5 - Be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Saturday, June 27, 2009
How to get your X back
Did you just experience a break up? Are you wondering how to go get your ex back? Nearly every adult has experienced some kind of a break up, and most just work on moving on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back. But if you are done playing the victim and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are options for you. Everyone deals with breakup, but does break up simply mean that you cannot get back together with your ex?
The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back. The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. Even though you cannot go back into the past, and you cannot change what happened, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and you can try to learn and grow from the experiences.
The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should never come up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.
The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.
Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.
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sincerely Mike
The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back. The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. Even though you cannot go back into the past, and you cannot change what happened, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and you can try to learn and grow from the experiences.
The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should never come up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.
The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.
Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.
click here to get the full ebook
sincerely Mike
Friday, June 26, 2009
Get your ex to return your calls
Hello,
Are there certain 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return those phone calls?
It may be hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.
Awesome eh?...
I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from subscribers just like you that are
trying to put their relationship
back together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my call, text or IM?"
BUT...
***********
WARNING!
***********
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.
<<click here to learn more>>
If you use this technique by itself, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may do more
damage to your relationship than if
they never returned your call.
****************
What NOT to Say!
****************
Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER ever
works.
and worse...
Puts you in an Bad 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into two categories.
The PLEADER- Where the message sounds like
"Jim, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Judy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on about it...
************************************
How To Use Self Interest & Curiosity
To Your Best Advantage
***********************************
Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are
*Self Interest &
*Curiosity
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi Jim. It's Judy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
Jim will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" will be his thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.
But more importantly...
************
2nd WARNING!
************
Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
<<Click here for more info>>
If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.
Alright?
What I am saying is this...
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!==><<click here to learn more>>
Are there certain 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return those phone calls?
It may be hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.
Awesome eh?...
I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from subscribers just like you that are
trying to put their relationship
back together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my call, text or IM?"
BUT...
***********
WARNING!
***********
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.
<<click here to learn more>>
If you use this technique by itself, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may do more
damage to your relationship than if
they never returned your call.
****************
What NOT to Say!
****************
Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER ever
works.
and worse...
Puts you in an Bad 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into two categories.
The PLEADER- Where the message sounds like
"Jim, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Judy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on about it...
************************************
How To Use Self Interest & Curiosity
To Your Best Advantage
***********************************
Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are
*Self Interest &
*Curiosity
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi Jim. It's Judy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
Jim will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" will be his thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.
But more importantly...
************
2nd WARNING!
************
Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
<<Click here for more info>>
If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.
Alright?
What I am saying is this...
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!==><<click here to learn more>>
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