5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex?

Relationships are fragile strands that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and flourishing. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are painful, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that ends, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really for the best? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting situation, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also excellent ways for getting your ex back as well.

1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop your wussy begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and continuing with life. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.

2 - Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counter intuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable you are.

3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer, don't burn bridges. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.

4 - Get out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and go out. Develop a social life and enjoy some entertainment . This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.

5 - Be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.

More about how to get your ex back Video by my partner T-Dub

How to get your X back

Did you just experience a break up? Are you wondering how to go get your ex back? Nearly every adult has experienced some kind of a break up, and most just work on moving on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back. But if you are done playing the victim and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are options for you. Everyone deals with breakup, but does break up simply mean that you cannot get back together with your ex?

The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back. The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. Even though you cannot go back into the past, and you cannot change what happened, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and you can try to learn and grow from the experiences.

The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should never come up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.

The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.

Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.

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sincerely Mike

Get your ex to return your calls

Hello,

Are there certain 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return those phone calls?

It may be hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Awesome eh?...

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from subscribers just like you that are
trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my call, text or IM?"


BUT...

***********
WARNING!
***********

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.

<<click here to learn more>>

If you use this technique by itself, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may do more
damage to your relationship than if
they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER ever
works.

and worse...

Puts you in an Bad 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into two categories.

The PLEADER- Where the message sounds like

"Jim, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Judy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on about it...

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How To Use Self Interest & Curiosity
To Your Best Advantage
***********************************

Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Self Interest &
*Curiosity

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Jim. It's Judy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

Jim will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" will be his thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly...

************
2nd WARNING!
************

Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

<<Click here for more info>>

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Alright?

What I am saying is this...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==><<click here to learn more>>